To be real in a world of objects
Velveteen principle #1: Real is possible
Velveteen principle #2: Real is a process
Velveteen principle #3: Real is emotional
Velveteen principle #4: Real is empathetic
Velveteen principle #5: Real is courageous
Velveteen principle #6: Real is honest
Velveteen principle #7: Real is generous
Velveteen principle #8: Real is grateful
Velveteen principle #9: Real can be painful
Velveteen principle #10: Real is flexible
Velveteen principle #11: Real love endures
Velveteen principle #12: Real is ethical
Epilogue: Real has meaning.